What exactly is sexual freedom? Sex that is free of commitment or obligation has a high price tag - physically, emotionally, relationally, and spiritually. There is no such thing as "free sex", someone always pays. We often have a misconception of the true meaning of freedom ; it is not our ability to do whatever we want whenever we want but it is our ability to be free from bondage - the bonds that the consequences of our choices can put us in. Sexual freedom means the ability to let down all barriers and become completely vulnerable to your partner knowing that you can trust him/her without reservation.